Happy New Year

As usual, I have been inspired by a close friend to get on track with my blog! (Thanks, Ang!)

Another New Year has come. The past twelve months have been tumultuous to say the least. January 29, 2008 will mark the one year anniversary of the death of my beloved father-in-law, Ray VanderHoek. I can't believe a full year has already elapsed since his passing. I am frequently reminded to view life as he did...to focus on family and fun, and not to sweat the small stuff. I still am and probably always will have to work on that (I am a Secory, after all!) but what I learned from Ray will be in my heart and mind forever. For that, I am eternally grateful.

My granddad, Grandpa Pettit, is ill at this time. Over a year ago he suffered a stroke and at first looked to be poised to live many more years. As of late, we have realized that he is deteriorating and becoming more frail. This is especially hard to face, as we always joked that Granddad would probably live to be 120 ! He has always been so strong and healthy. That makes it especially hard to see him weaken. Even though he hasn't been able to speak any words since his stroke, his spirit and smile are still alive, and I am blessed that he still "speaks" to us through his eyes. They still sparkle when we enter the room! And he still gives great back scratches! =]

On a happier note, our family grew! Not by a baby...but by a new sister-in-law! My little bro Scott married his love, Julie, in late August. They had a private ceremony in Hawaii and then a party in September which Andy and I attended with my parents. She is so sweet and kind....intelligent and funny....and obviously has great taste! I love her dearly already, and look forward to getting to know her even better in the years to come. I am so happy that Scott has found happiness. He deserves it so much! If only we could get him to move closer....

On a personal note, I continue to recognize the need to "work on me." I hope to find the strength to do just that this year. I know there is so much more I can do for myself...to be healthier and happier...and that making those changes will make me a better person for others. It will allow me to be more giving because I will have the energy to do so. Making sacrifices will allow me to be more generous to others. Not focusing on trivial things will allow me to invest more time in causes that need my help. There are many times when I find myself saying I cannot do something because I don't have the money, the energy, or the time. What I have come to realize is that those very resources are available. I need to reevaluate how I am using them now, so that I can better utilize them in the future. God has given me incredible gifts. It is my sincere hope to share them with others more abundantly.

To all of you, Gods blessings in the New Year and always. May you feel the love of those around you, the peace that comes with knowing you are loved, and the courage to make a difference in the world you live in!
Love,
Kel